In this world, people can’t live alone. We need each other’s support to keep standing. That’s why, people socializes. To make trustworthy friends, maybe to find a lover, or just to make connections that will be useful in the future.
Socializing may look easy. We greet, shake hands, introduce each other, and then chat. If luck is on our side, we’ll feel comfortable and become really good friends. But to do that, we must have something that makes them interested.
That “interesting” thing can be anything. It may refer to things, personalities, way of thinking, or maybe looks. Some people, may accept us the way we are. Some pushes us to change to what we’re not.
Let’s see an example. We’ll take the easiest thing. Blackberry. In Indonesia, most people already have Blackberry. In the past, only people with money has the privilege to have this luxurious thing. Now, even house maids have them. Why? People tend to go with the style, feeling that it’s the only way to be accepted. Some kids even begs their parents to buy that phone. Not caring what difficulties their parents might have to face to get them what they want.
Another example, cliques or gangs. They change their members’s personalities. Maybe from the good to the bad, bad to the better, or ever bad to the worse. It all depends on what kind of friends we choose.
From my observation, most people change because of their social lives. Friends are one of those aspects in life that changes you the most. Why? Because they are the ones that you see, talk, laugh, and fight with everyday. They are the ones we lean on. We do the things our friends do, and vice versa.
That’s why, choose the right kind of friends. Choose the ones that accepts you for who you are. The ones who will be there in your ups and downs. The ones who tells you the bad things about yourself, not just the good stuff. The ones that makes you happy. And if you finally do, I assure you, your life is complete.
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